The Age of Aquarius? The False Promise of
The Sexual Revolution |
By Bryce Christensen,
Ph.D. | |
The
release in 2004 of Bill Condon’s movie Kinsey occasioned more than a
little praise for the real-life person the film celebrates: namely,
the pioneering sex researcher Alfred Kinsey. Like Wilhelm
Reich, William Masters and Virginia Johnson, Hugh Hefner, Ruth
Westheimer, Shere Hite, James Rado and Gerome Ragni, and many
others, Kinsey was one of the iconoclasts who helped spark America’s
Sexual Revolution. As movie critics applauded the movie based
on his life, they praised Kinsey for defying “a political climate of
fear and repression” as he “redefined what was considered normal
sexual behavior.”[1] They lauded him for his “genius”
in developing a sexology that made “life easier for people by
promoting tolerance to human sexuality in all its diversity.”[2] They even came close to
beatifying him for having allowed himself to become a “martyr at the
hands of the FBI and the religious right.”[3]
Others in Kinsey’s revolutionary cadre have likewise
shared in recent applause. Shere Hite, for instance, still
basks in journalistic favor as the sex researcher who “brought
feminism into the bedroom” and consequently “made most women feel
more normal, more relaxed, and sexually secure.”[4] Sexologists William Masters and
Virginia Johnson are likewise still favorably remembered for “the
curiosity and courage” with which they “lifted shrouds of
ignorance.”[5] Self-proclaimed sex expert Dr.
Ruth Westheimer similarly still gets credit for having promulgated
“the best scientifically validated data about human sexual
functioning.”[6]
And
since liberated sexual functioning brought much of the excitement to
Hair — that Sixties-era paean to nudity and unrestrained sex — it
likewise receives favorable notice whenever it returns to the stage,
as enthusiastic critics continue to hail it as a visionary
piece. These critics still generously laud this play, noting
not only its “clinical terminology for sex acts,” but also the
imaginative “sympathy and understanding” that it extends to men and
women who are “unfettered by society.” This, after all, is a
work that “reminds us that the Age of Aquarius was more than just
bad fashion, bad hair, and bad drugs.”[7]
Perhaps because he has steered clear of bad fashion
and bad hair, even the genial pornographer Hugh Hefner has been
accorded a place in the contemporary pantheon of sex heroes,
journalists now viewing him as “an American legend” who has aged
into “the veritable Yoda of the sexual revolution.” After all,
Hefner helped a nation “hobbled by Puritan roots” to discover the
joys of “sexual freedom.”[8] And as fellow rebels against a
“Puritan value system” that made it hard for Americans to “claim
their own sexuality,” even pelvis-gyrating Elvis Presley and his
rocking-and-rolling epigones have received battle ribbons for their
role in a sexual revolution that finally effected “the breakdown of
sexual barriers.”[9]
Why
have commentators continued to heap such effusive praise for the
leaders of the Sexual Revolution? One prominent journalist has
recently explained that he views the sexual revolutionaries
favorably because he views “the sexual revolution as a necessary
liberation of the human body and spirit.”[10] Others have explained their
praise for sexual revolutionaries as the appropriate attitude toward
brave pioneers who have “shed a light” into the “darkness” of sexual
ignorance.[11]
Such
views may be understandable among those who have grown up listening
to the sexual revolutionaries’ own self-congratulatory
rhetoric. But anyone willing to carefully examine the social
and psychological realities that these revolutionaries have helped
create will soon develop a deeply skeptical view of their
accomplishment in forging those new realities. For in their
zeal to sweep away ignorance, these revolutionaries have fallen
victim to fraud and illusions. Blinded and confused, these
self-styled liberators have broken not the manacles of slavery, but
rather the anchor chains of security. Neither the new
knowledge nor the new liberties that the sexual revolutionaries
claim to have given society will bear critical scrutiny.
For
all their boastful claims to having penetrated the veils of sexual
ignorance, the sexual revolutionaries have been themselves
remarkably blind to the most obvious truths. These
revolutionaries have supposed that sex finds its meaning in the
pleasure of individuals. As some of its more candid champions
have openly acknowledged, the sexual revolution means “a
transformation in sexuality” in which sex is torn away from “family
reproduction” and “increasingly serves to pleasure individualized
men and women.”[12] But even if they know nothing
about the physiology of sex organs or the various techniques of sex
therapists, most Americans have long recognized that sex finds its
true meaning in the joy of a unified family, not in the pleasure of
free-floating individuals.
As
Christina Robb has suggested, we need an understanding of human
sexuality as something far more than the reductive and dehumanizing
“orgasm-trading” of the sexual revolution. “Love is a sexual
act ... ,” Robb remarks. “Parents can be lovers,” their
abiding love providing the context for “birth [as] a sexual act[;
p]regnancy [as] a sexual state[; n]ursing [as] a sexual act.”[13] It is, of course, wedlock and
family that have always focused and guided human sexuality toward
family joys. That those joys are worth all our striving is
well understood by psychologist Judith S. Wallerstein, who sees
humans at “our civilized best” in successful marriage and in the
family life such a marriage makes possible. “We are,”
Wallerstein avers, “at our most considerate, our most loving, our
most selfless within the orbit of a good family.” What is
more, all hope for preserving our highest ideals in generations to
come depends ultimately on wedlock: “Only within a satisfying
marriage,” Wallerstein affirms, “can a man and a woman create the
emotional intimacy and moral vision that they alone can bequeath to
their children.”[14]
Because of their blindness to the family as the very
ground of our human nature, the sexual revolutionaries have
grievously misunderstood the restraints on sexuality encoded in
traditional morality. In his landmark book After Virtue,
ethical philosopher Alasdair MacIntyre explains that the modern
world has stumbled into moral confusion by forgetting that moral
principles find their meaning not as arbitrary and restrictive lists
of prohibitions, but rather as meaningful and formative influences
that shape individuals toward some social purpose or telos.[15] Thus the traditional moral
restraints governing sexuality serve ultimately to shape those who
submit to them for their telos as husbands and wives, fathers and
mothers. Given the inherent relationship between moral
principle and social telos, it is predictable rather than surprising
that MacIntrye regards as a failure every modern attempt to
integrate traditional sexual restraints into a modern ethic focused
on the individual rather than the family.[16]
Tens
of millions of Americans see in the way that traditional restraints
on sexuality shape us for our social telos as husbands and wives not
merely a coherent moral logic, but a divine wisdom. After all,
God Himself ordained marriage as the reason a man would leave his
father and mother to cleave unto a woman as “one flesh” (Gen. 2: 24;
cf. Matt. 19:5-6; Eph. 5:31). Those who engage in sexual
relations outside of wedlock are sinfully departing from the path a
merciful God has marked out to lead us to marital and familial joy
(cf. Ex. 20:14; Matt. 5: 27, 32; 19:9; I Cor. 6:18;
7:2).
Even
many who lack the faith to see a divine hand in traditional sexual
morality can see how that morality serves to reinforce marriage and
the family. It is thus sociobiology, not Scripture, that has
taught philosopher Andrew Oldenquist that “the purpose of sexual
love is collaboration in the care of children” and that “from a
biological point of view sex is ... not an end in itself.”[17] And though Oldenquist has not
reached the doctrinal firmness of the religiously devout on the
matter of “recreational sex,” he at least recognizes — as the
insouciant leaders of the sexual revolution never have —that such
sex “almost always [entails] a price to pay” for the participants
and their families, even if “it is not easy to understand why this
is so or even what the exact nature of that price is.”
Oldenquist can at least see enough of the relationship between moral
principle and social telos to suggest that “promiscuous sex”
conflicts with “sexual, romantic love between mates” and with that
deep-down element of “human nature ... [that] wants couples to stay
together,” an element of human nature that comes to us as “part of
our Pleistocene inheritance.”[18]
Nor
are the religiously devout and the sociobiologically initiated the
only ones who are beginning to recognize the very high cost of
violating a sexual morality that guides us toward marital fidelity
and family commitment. Sociologists now have collected
compelling evidence that premarital sexual activity (fornication in
the language of our ancestors) means a significantly higher chance
of marital failure.[19] Giving real weight to this finding
are the voluminous sociological studies linking divorce to an
alarming vulnerability to physical and mental illness, to poverty,
and to crime.[20] Psychologists now also have ample
evidence that extramarital affairs visit “great suffering” on
betrayed spouses, even when those spouses profess a “sophisticated”
modern outlook in which such things are not supposed to matter.[21]
Like
betrayed spouses, betrayed children pay a high price for the
extramarital adventures and divorces the sexual revolution has
fostered. Psychologists report that when parents engage in
adulterous liaisons, their young children develop “symptoms of
insecurity” such as thumbsucking, bedwetting, or night terrors,
while their adolescent children contemplate suicide.[22] And in the numerous cases in
which a lack of sexual discipline leads to divorce, the children of
the separating parents are tragically exposed to poverty, illness,
psychological distress, and violent crime.[23] The Age of Aquarius has put a
lot of innocent young people in psychologists’ offices — and
morticians’ parlors!
Some
sexual revolutionaries might brush aside the costs of marital
failure by dismissing marriage itself as an outmoded
institution. In their luminous sexual theorizing, men, women,
and children will all be happier when they simply stop trying to
make this antiquated institution work. As appealing as this
theorizing might sound to sexual adventurers, neither history nor
social science offers it any support.
The
experience of those who lived through the free-love communes of the
Sixties contradicts rather than confirms the radiant theorizing of
sexual revolutionaries. A daughter of Sixties flower children
succinctly sums up the consequences of the communes’ sexual
philosophy: “The cost of ‘free’ love? Self-esteem.
Happiness.”[24] Of course, neither the
self-esteem nor the happiness of children was ever the prime concern
of the Sixties hippies who created the free-love communes. A
son of one of those who participated in these nightmarish free-love
experiments recalls that the adults were so absorbed in “exploration
of sexual energy” that “children were left to their own devices.”[25] Tragically, neglect was the
least of the evils visited upon young children living in
communes: in some of these communes, children were the objects
of horrific sexual abuse.[26] One of the children in a
free-love commune recalls that his remorseful mother eventually
confessed, “I got lost. I would just give myself away to the
moment. I didn’t have a substance that kept me anchored in the
things that mattered.”[27]
Perhaps only the drug-crazed denizens of the Sixties
could ever have supposed that what they needed to keep them anchored
in the things that mattered was “a substance.” For millennia,
men and women have understood that it is their moral principles that
keep them anchored in the things that matter. Only such moral
principles inform and make possible the marriages and families that
most Americans still recognize as the social realities of greatest
substance and meaning. Even after decades of bombardment with
post-Kinsey propaganda, most American teenagers still recognize
family ties as the key to life satisfaction, and three-fourths of
the nation’s college freshmen still identify “raising a family” as
one of their most important life goals.[28] And even years of study in
socially progressive universities cannot — to the surprise of
social-science researchers — disabuse bright young Americans in MBA
programs and law programs of the notion that “Family is first,
always first!” and that “keeping a happy family and a good marriage”
is the “ultimate” accomplishment that “defines you.”[29]
True,
the propaganda of the sexual revolution has helped drive down the
nation’s marriage rate by 40%, while dramatically multiplying the
number of couples living together without taking vows.[30] But the available evidence
indicates that neither sexually liberated singles nor cohabiting
couples are finding the joy and fulfillment promised by the
ebullient theorists of the sexual revolution. Instead, they
are finding domestic violence, drug abuse, psychological distress,
poverty, and disease.[31] Compared to married peers,
cohabiting women are five times as likely to suffer “severe
violence” at the hands of their domestic partner.[32] Compared to married peers,
cohabiting men and women are four times as likely to suffer from a
sexually transmitted disease.[33] Compared to married peers,
unmarried singles and cohabiting couples suffer from worse health.[34] Compared to married peers,
unmarried singles and cohabiting couples live in greater poverty.[35] And even when they have
experienced fewer traumatic experiences than their married peers,
unmarried young Americans suffer from more anxiety and depression.[36]
Unfortunately, children born to unmarried singles and
cohabiting couples share in all the deprivation and misery of their
sexually emancipated parents. A 2004 study of almost 36,000
American children and adolescents concluded that compared to peers
reared by two married biological parents, children reared by
cohabiting couples and by unmarried singles manifest significantly
more psychological, behavioral, and academic problems.[37] Recent data likewise indicate
that children living with single and cohabiting parents experience
far more poverty than do peers living with married parents.[38] Though the communes of the
Sixties promised to bring everyone together in a newly harmonious
society, what has really happened as their free-love philosophy has
seeped through American culture is that all the evils once confined
to Prune or Friedrichsof, or some other New Age commune, have spread
through millions of impoverished and crime-ridden family
fragments. No wonder that when a team of pediatricians
investigated the various circumstances in which American children
grow up, they lamented the plight of children living in these
fragments and concluded that “marriage is beneficial in many ways,”
in large part because “people behave differently when they are
married” and consequently “they have healthier lifestyles.”[39]
Clearly, in advocating a freedom that shatters wedlock
and the family, the sexual revolutionaries have championed a deeply
dubious liberation. How many Americans really want to be freed
from the happiness, health, and other benefits that come with a
successful marriage and family? Unfortunately, the sexual
revolutionaries have so confused many young Americans that they now
view traditional sexual ethics as arbitrary and repressive, not as
the necessary guides to securing all the life enhancements that come
with wedlock and family.
The
sexual revolutionaries have spread confusion far and wide (with the
help of pliant media) partly by obscuring the way traditional sexual
morality fosters marital and familial success by shaping us toward
our social telos as husbands and wives, fathers and mothers.
But these revolutionaries have even more thoroughly befuddled the
naďve by promising in sexuality a kind of freedom seen in no other
sphere of human behavior — a freedom without restrictions, without
consequences, without accountability.
It is
deeply ironic that some of these revolutionaries — including Kinsey,
Masters and Johnson, Reich, and Hite — have promulgated this
illusion of boundless freedom while claiming the mantle of science,
a human enterprise in which discipline is universally recognized as
essential to freedom, not as a contradiction to it. As
anthropologist Jacob Bronowski has pointed out, because one
scientist can only work with others if he is “able to trust their
word,” the scientific community absolutely relies on “the principle
of truth” that gives their collaborative work “the power of
virtue.” Putting this point emphatically, Bronowski writes, “A
scientist who finds that this rule [of truth] has been broken in his
laboratory ... kills himself.”[40] Seen in this light, strict
fidelity to the truth is no genuine restriction on a scientist’s
liberty; rather, such fidelity is an essential precondition to his
professional freedom to do meaningful labor with colleagues.
To speak of liberating scientists from their obligation to find and
report the truth is to speak arrant nonsense. But it is
nonsense at least as palpable as that which the sexual
revolutionaries have been spreading in promising emotional
fulfillment and psychological rewards to those who jettison the very
principles that guide us toward the marital and family life
essential to such fulfillment and rewards. Just as those who
would talk about freeing scientists from honesty would actually be
talking about freeing them from science itself, even so sexual
revolutionaries’ rhetoric of liberation from traditional morality is
actually a formula for freeing men and women from their very
humanity. It makes as much sense to speak of freeing fish from
water or birds from air.
That
Kinsey — for one — never accepted moral restrictions as the
precondition to freedom in any domain, not even his much-vaunted
science, may be inferred from the way he acted when psychologist
Abraham Maslow detected evidence of “bias toward unconventional
sexual behavior” in his work and confronted him with that
evidence: Kinsey severed all professional relationships with
Maslow and concealed the evidence Maslow had uncovered.[41] That Kinsey’s research involved
sexual abuse of infants and toddlers further indicates just how
completely Kinsey rejected any moral restriction as a legitimate
precondition to his freedom as a scientist.[42] The indulgence that other
sexologists have extended to Kinsey since his scientific fraud has
been exposed suggests that ideological advocacy counts for far more
than fidelity to truth or moral probity in sexology, raising grave
doubts about its legitimacy as a science.
Doubts about sexology would persist even if its
practitioners could expunge Kinsey’s misdeeds from the historical
record. For as psychoanalyst Leslie H. Farber has pointed out,
sex researchers appear not to have learned the lesson that quantum
physicists (the very model of scientific rigor) have amply
demonstrated: “the act of investigation alters the thing under
investigation.” Sex researchers, Farber complains, labor under
“the mistaken conceit that everything human will, and should, yield
its secrets if exposed to the proper illumination.” They thus
lack any of the discretion that would tell them that “big ideas”
such as love and sex are “as fragile as they are powerful, as
subject to mutilation as to clarification.”[43] The French essayist Georges
Bataille had the same defect in sexology in view when he asserted
that inquiries into sexual life were fundamentally “incompatible”
with the scientific objectivity to which sexologists have laid
claim.[44]
Only
the spurious objectivity of sexologists can account for the way they
have smuggled into their initial assumptions a radical individualism
that they have then tried to legitimate through their
findings. By making the same hedonistic and individualizing
assumptions about human nature that Hugh Hefner, James Rado and
Gerome Ragni, and numerous other sexual revolutionaries have made
without scientific pretext, sexologists have simply sidestepped the
traditional wisdom of Aristotle’s designation of man as a zoon
politikon, a social animal. From Aristotle’s traditional
perspective, a rootless individual must be a god or beast, not a
human, for a human’s happiness depends on “his parents, children,
[and] wife, and generally ... friends and fellow citizens.”
Even the well-being of unborn descendants weighs heavily in this
outlook.[45] Since no one will ever mistake
the radical individualists of the sexual revolution for gods, the
suspicion grows that they are subhuman beasts. Critics have
good reason to remember that Kinsey began his scientific labors as a
researcher of gell wasps and appears to have carried into his
sexology an assumption that “human beings are just more complicated
gell wasps.”[46]
Having seen sexual revolutionaries draw freely from
bad science to advance their cause, Americans can hardly take at
face value their assurances that they are fighting political
repression and advancing the cause of liberty. Under careful
scrutiny, in fact, the much-advertised liberty offered by sexual
revolutionaries turns out to be mere heedlessness, not a genuine
freedom of the sort that enhances human possibilities. As the
psychiatrist Norman Doidge has perceptively noted, in the world of
the sexual revolutionaries sex is “not so much a slave that needs to
be freed as an overbearing master ... [and their] idea of health is
to give it more power still.” Thus Doidge sees the sexual
revolutionaries creating “more happy slaves, who pass off their
dependence as freedom.”[47] It is indeed a vision of happy
slavery that Aldous Huxley depicts in his brilliant novel Brave New
World, in which an imaginary future government encourages almost
unlimited sexual couplings in order to keep everyone in a state of
pliant emotional infancy. As one of Huxley’s characters comes
to realize, “We went to bed yesterday — like infants — instead of
adults and waiting.”[48] Underscoring the point that
sexual license erodes rather than enlarges true freedom, Huxley
remarked in the foreword to a second edition of the novel that a
dictator would “do well to encourage that [sexual] freedom” as a
strategy for “reconcil[ing] his subjects to the servitude which is
their fate.”[49]
As
Huxley well understood, however, the sexual license promoted by
sexual revolutionaries imperils human liberty in real democracies,
not just imaginary dystopias. When citizens refuse to
discipline their sexual appetites in a genuinely adult way, they
typically also lose control of their other appetites in ways that
often lead to law-breaking — and then imprisonment. No one
should really be surprised that young people who fornicate are more
likely than continent peers to use illegal drugs and to be entangled
in legal difficulties.[50] Among older adults, those who
have succeeded in marriage — an institution reinforced by sexual
discipline and destroyed by sexual license — are far, far more
likely to live the lawful lives that keep them out of prison than
those who never make and keep marital vows.[51] What is more, parents who lack
the sexual discipline necessary to marry and stay married are far
more likely to see their children commit crimes that subsequently
make them prison inmates than are parents who command such
discipline.[52] Sexual revolutionaries have
boasted loudly of the new freedoms they have given Americans.
Why is it that those boasts are echoing from thousands of newly
constructed prison walls?
But
the sexual revolution has imperiled real freedom in a democratic
republic not only by turning so many citizens toward criminal
activities that land them in prison. The sexual revolution has
also undermined liberty for ordinary non-criminal Americans by
destroying the intact marriages and families that have traditionally
provided a stable sphere in which men, women, and children can live
their lives free from intrusive governmental scrutiny, bureaucratic
intervention, or judicial oversight. When anarchic sexual
impulses destroy marriages or prevent them from forming in the first
place, it is inevitably the coercive power of the state — operating
through divorce courts, welfare and child-protection agencies, and
child-support collection agencies — that takes over, dramatically
constricting the real freedom of the Americans who become part of
their jurisdiction. A number of observers have commented on
the growing dangers to liberty in the powerful government agencies
that collect child support from non-custodial parents. These
agencies now use massive computer monitoring systems that track
where everyone is working and rely on aggressive policing practices
in which hundreds of divorced and never-married fathers find
themselves treated as “quasi-criminals, perpetually under corrective
supervision.”[53]
The
liberty of American citizens has also shrunk as sexual license has
separated more and more children from their natural fathers and put
them under the roof of either a harried and isolated mother alone or
an emotionally preoccupied mother now joined by a new
husband-stepfather or live-in boyfriend. Allegations of child
abuse have skyrocketed in such circumstances, putting more and more
state officials in more and more homes and entangling more and more
children and parents in the government’s labyrinthine bureaucracies
for child protection and foster care.[54] And though no one can doubt
that the real incidence of child abuse has soared as the sexual
revolution has shattered bands of wedlock (or prevented such bands
from forming in the first place), that revolution of the libido has
further compromised the possibilities for American freedom by
multiplying the divorce proceedings in which aggressive lawyers have
discovered the strategic utility of a groundless accusation of such
abuse.[55] Given the number and the
severity of ways that sexual anarchy has undermined the freedom that
secure marital and family life protect, it is hardly surprising that
legal scholar George S. Swan regards with alarm the erosion of the
family as “a freestanding institution mediating between the
individual citizen and the central government.... Today’s family,
continually threatened by dissolution, is less and less able to
serve as the context in which millions of Americans...organize their
lives independent of central political authority.”[56]
The
actual political effects should make Americans skeptical of
progressive commentators who pejoratively characterize any society
governed by traditional sexual ethics as “priest-ridden.”[57] For it is becoming all too
clear that the sexual revolutionaries have given us a society that
is lawyer-ridden, bureaucrat-ridden, and judge-ridden. Because
of the increasingly unavoidable legal and bureaucratic entanglements
it has produced, even a self-identified defender of the sexual
revolution as a “liberation of the human body and spirit” may find
himself “chagrined at some of the places to which the liberation has
delivered us” in our “cynical, litigious, and libidinous times.”[58]
And
even as the sexual revolution undermines freedom now by turning more
and more men and women into cynical and libidinous litigants, it
diminishes prospects for freedom tomorrow by allowing fewer and
fewer men and women to develop the civic virtues essential to the
health of republican institutions. For by disintegrating
marriages and families, the sexual revolution has torn up the social
setting that Cicero aptly called “the seedbed of the state.”[59] As the social institution that
creates that seedbed, marriage turns men and women toward civic
responsibility and civic involvement.[60] The sexual revolution’s baleful
effects on wedlock and the family have thus translated into real
decline in community participation, evident in lower rates of
involvement in scouting, the Red Cross, the PTA, and the Jaycees. It
has also meant falling attendance at town meetings, declining
involvement with political parties, and reduced willingness to hold
or run for public office or even to vote.[61] Have sexual revolutionaries
simply not understood that real freedom does not flourish in an
unhealthy civic culture?
Just
how seriously the sexual revolution has hurt our civic culture
becomes all too evident when even a social theorist who is in
principle committed to defending “the right to consenting sex” — a
right central to the agenda of the sexual revolutionaries — admits
that the sexual revolution has let loose “fantasies of masochists
[that] are anything but conducive to enlightened social attitudes”
and concedes that the “inequalities and unfairness” of the sexual
relations scripted by such fantasies entails “a rather heavy price
to pay for a relatively modest increment in sexual liberty.”[62] And unfortunately, it is not
just in the fantasies of masochists that the sexual revolution has
fostered inequalities and unfairness. Far from ushering in a
utopian Age of Aquarius, the sexual revolution has made it easier
and easier for the rich to enjoy their casual pleasures at the
expense of the poor, for men to sate their lust while abandoning the
women who endure the consequences, and for adults to indulge in
caprices that must be paid for by children.
Thus
it is injustice, not freedom, that captures the attention of
political scientist James Q. Wilson when he analyzes the “heavy
price” the poor have paid for falling under the cultural spell of
“articles about sexual freedom or ... motion pictures glamorizing
the lives of unmarried mothers.” For while affluence shields
the wealthy from many of the consequences of “loose sexuality,” the
poor are fully exposed to those consequences.[63] Meanwhile, the slack ethics of
the sexual revolution — coupled with the wide availability of
contraceptives and abortion — has also created a dynamic of
injustice along gender lines. The morality that once made a
man morally and financially responsible for any pregnancy he caused
has faded. In the wake of the sexual revolution, social
scientists see a world in which “men who wanted sexual activity, but
did not want to promise marriage in case of pregnancy, were [no
longer]...expected nor required to do so.”[64] The sexual revolutionaries have
thus written a social script in which men play and women pay.
But
perhaps the worst injustice fostered by the sexual revolution has
been the injustice of permitting adults to seize immediate carnal
satisfactions paid for in the long run by their children. As
one disillusioned youth has remarked, the “sexual revolution [that]
defined [his parents’] generation” helped turn their children — “all
children of divorce” — into “20th-century history’s janitors,” as “a
party [that] started in the 60s and continued through the ‘me’ era
of the 70s and 80s” left the nation a mess, forcing the young to
take up the unpleasant duty “to clean the place up.”[65] Is it any wonder that
anti-depressants have now surpassed birth-control pills as the most
often-used medication on college campuses?[66] Surveying the aftermath of the
sexual revolution in the United States and Western Europe, even
French socialist Larent Baumel tiptoes gingerly toward the sorry
truth: “Without being a dyed-in-the-wool reactionary, one can safely
assert that the new personal liberties the men and women of the 1968
generation enjoyed, the chances they got to escape more traditional
family models, did not have wholly positive effects on their
children’s identity and adjustment.”[67]
When
even French socialists can no longer blink the harm visited upon the
young by the sexual revolution fomented by their elders, perhaps it
is time to admit that the leaders of that revolution were leading
society not toward liberty and enlightenment, but rather toward
injustice, confusion, and bondage. Perhaps it is time to admit
that true liberty has never meant satiating every appetite upon a
whim. As one who taught America much, much more about liberty
than did Alfred Kinsey, Hugh Hefner, or any other sexual
revolutionary, Abraham Lincoln urged his countrymen to deal with
their greatest national crisis by heeding “the better angels of our
nature.”[68] Implicit in Lincoln’s urging
was an acknowledgment that, unless we watch ourselves, we can fall
under the sway of the baser angels of our nature. The last
forty years have shown only too clearly that no angels of human
nature are baser than those of unrestrained lust. These
demonic angels of the sexual revolution have already dragged us deep
into crime, disease, neuroses, injustice, and servitude.
Perhaps it is time, once again, to heed Lincoln’s sage advice to
listen to the better angels of our nature, angels that by again
teaching us continence and self-discipline will take us back toward
the real understanding of human nature that alone makes true freedom
possible.
Endnotes:
1 Roger Ebert, Rev. of Kinsey, dir. Bill
Condon, 19 Nov. 2004, Reviews for ‘Kinsey.’ 1
Sept. 2005.
http://www.rogerebert.suntimes.com/apps/pbcs.d11.
2 Louis B. Parks, “Starting the Revolution,”
Houston Chronicle 27 Nov. 2004: 3.
3 Peter Travers, Rev. of Kinsey, dir. Bill
Condon, Rolling Stone 3 Nov. 2004, 1 Sept. 2005
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